iPhones

I don’t know how people managed to get through cancer treatment without cell phones. 

Although I am kidding I am also grateful to be able to utilize this technology today as I start the stem cell transplant process with the mobilization chemotherapy at Dana Farber. 

This is essentially an all day affair starting with my 4 am alarm (on my iPhone) and hitting the road with Lisa, who slept over the night before. 

iPhone utilization this visit:

  • Lisa kept a list of the questions I wanted to remember to ask the SCT coordinators in her Notes for  me (we’re both in our 50’s and can’t remember sh!t). 
  • We used the Waze app to get here and more importantly navigate the horrendous Boston traffic. 
  • I ended up walking the last quarter mile (yes, the traffic was THAT bad) and was able to text Lisa where I was. 
  • Checking blood test results for labs that were taken an hour prior. 
  • I will be hooked up to this IV pole for 9 hours. But Lisa and her iPhone are my eyes to everything outside of this room. I’ve been able to browse the gift shop and peruse the cafe offerings all with photos from Lisa!
  • And then there is the entertainment portion, Drop7 (me), Farm Heroes Saga (Lisa), Facebook, Instagram, etc. helps to while away the hours. 
  • Also an excellent resource for argument solving; is it catmint or catnip? We were both right!
  • Lastly, but not least, the texts, emails and messages wishing me well today. 

I am ready for this next step and all it brings (both side effects and healing) but I have enjoyed these last few weeks being treatment free, just me. And to my credit (yes, I’m giving myself credit, oh the power of a blog!) I appreciated and acknowledged it daily. 

Addendum: I almost forgot – I used my iPhone to update my blog too!

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    Heather

    I never thought I’d be writing a blog, and certainly not one that is all about me, and yet, here I am. For me life has always been interesting, not mundane, not always exciting per se, but hardly ever the norm. When I say “It’s always something…” I don’t hear it as my life is a mess, it;s always something. It’s more of life is challenging and evolving and messy and inspiring and wondrous, it’s always something. I grew up in suburbia, buy my grandfather was the head of the Communist Party in the U.S. I was raised keeping that a secret, so that was something. I am tall, always have been, really tall (6’1″), I was taller than every human being in my elementary school when I was in 6th grade, that is still something. My parents divorced in my teens. I got a full basketball scholarship to Duke University. I married my high school basketball coach, 18 years my senior. I raised a stepson. I had two amazing kids of my own. We had a multicultural household, secular christian (I guess that’s what I would call it, you know Santa and the Easter Bunny) and Judaism, I used to say if it was a holiday – we celebrated it! We were uber involved in our community, mostly through youth athletics, coaching, managing and spectating. Our kids grew up, I started a photography business on the side (I hope to share some photos here) and we planned to travel a bit together, went to Portugal for our 25th anniversary and then my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer, initially they gave him 5 years, but he only survived for a little over two. I was going to say lived, but really, it was more like surviving. That, indeed, was something. I became a widow at 49. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me. But, then it was something in another way. I relearned who I was. You don’t realize how much of you becomes a combination of you and another person in a relationship. And not in a bad way, it is essential, and you don’t lose yourself, you just evolve. And I found myself suddenly alone, and learning about myself and who I had become over the years, what was just me, and what was part of who we were together. Which in retrospect, was probably hardest on those around me who had gotten used to the old me, or never even knew the original me. A year later I found love again. Sold my home of 31 years and moved closer to work. I became more fit, ate more healthfully and was amazed that I could be happy, truly happy, in the wake, no not wake, but the shadow of such profound grief. And that is truly something, something amazing and unexpected. And then, through some routine blood work in April 2014, and a visit to a hematologist and bone marrow biopsy in May, I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma. And so, yes, for me right now it’s multiple myeloma, but that is not all, there are still highs and joys, and the mundane and the rest, but something like cancer does cast a pretty long shadow.

    7 thoughts on “iPhones”

    1. Hi Heather, Wishing you all the best today and always. Glad you have your iPhone with you for entertainment purposes and to stay in touch. It came in handy today! Sending you hugs!
      Denise

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    2. I hope that the time is passing quickly today and that the procedure is going well! Safe travels home my friend!!

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    3. God bless you girl!!!! Just had dinner with my dad after reading your latest update and he sends his best wishes! Then said, fight like it’s your best and biggest game ever and you’ll beat this thing for sure!
      Stay strong – love u and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers

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